Good Evening Elephant Lovers...
I know its been a while. I do apologize for the delay. Please forgive me.
Ok so on to business!!!
"If you wouldn't make her a wife, then don't make her a mother."
I read this quote a while ago. Initially I was on board. Yes, only initially. I had my arms flailing and was all about "men are scum and need to be more respectful of women". Then I thought of something. Marriage is the union of TWO people. The man isn't the only one responsible for free-range frolicking. Ladies, though this quote may be true, at some point you have to take responsibility for your own ass (LITERALLY). You cant just go around handing it out all willy-nilly and then blaming the man for whatever results may come. As women, we need to take responsibility for ourselves and our own destiny. If you know that man is NOT husband material, do NOT have sex with him! Don't get me wrong... I realize that we all need to get a little sexual healing every now and again (and again and again) sooooo if you do decide that King Mandingo, who also happens to be world's biggest jerk rocks your world, use birth control. Trust me when I say its a beautiful thing.
Of course another option is to WAIT. Don't go around shouting arson when you gave the criminal the lighter and the gasoline. In case you didn't follow that analogy: DON'T HAVE SEX UNLESS YOU ARE MARRIED IF YOU'RE GONNA BE UPSET IF YOU GET KNOCKED UP!
So before this pink elephant stampedes all over your life... Ladies, don't let him make you something that you don't want to be.
